Four Common Marriage Problems
Problem with the in-laws – It is normal for women to be competitive. What’s make it a bad thing is if it is between your wide and your mother competing for your attention. As a husband, you have to understand that your wife is now your partner to all the decisions that you make. It is important for a mother to understand that their son is now a family man and being a son is only second.
Problem with communication – Both of you may have careers of your own and it is important that you support each other. It is understandable that both of you are very busy but it is not an excuse to have no time to talk at all. Always find time to talk about your day, the things you want to do, and even little issues. You can do it during dinner, while helping each other doing household chores, or even before going to sleep.
Problem with money – Especially for newlyweds, financial struggle may be a bit harder to handle since they are still not used to freedom to purchase and saving for security. Aside from this, they also spend too much for the wedding catering, venue and other staff using their savings. Be a team and make financial plans. Have a joint bank account where you can put your money to spend for things you both want and individual bank accounts for your personal money that you can spend anyway you want.
Problem with the kids – If both of you are not prepared to be parents yet, then don’t! Having kids and being responsible for them is a lot different than just having pets. For newlyweds, going for family planning is highly-recommended. Talk to experts that can help you. Have a talk when do you really plan to have children, how many would you like to have, and how do you manage your time taking care of them.